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same_sky ([personal profile] same_sky) wrote2006-05-08 08:24 pm

like a ghost into the fog

This morning, I woke up feeling sore from yesterday's descent into the world's longest cave system. As [livejournal.com profile] totte so lovingly described, it was a long walk involving many stairs and much squatting and twisting. I decided that I didn't want to spend my day off feeling miserable, so I jumped out of bed and took some ibuprofen and had a nice hot shower. I then made a point of moving around while straightening up the house. I was feeling pretty proud of myself.. both because I was making myself work when I could very well have just flopped down on the couch and called it a day, but also because it was very clearly helping. I was feeling less and less sore as the day went on!

After lunch, it was time for some computer-type working, and then my mom called, so I spent most of the afternoon not moving around much. Imagine my surprise when I got up afterward--or attempted to get up--and nearly fell on my ass when I failed to bring myself to a fully vertical position at the same time as the chair decided to take a little spin on the hardwood floor. That was fun! I have been waddling around like a pregnant duck ever since. When M came home, I walked outside to the edge of the porch and stepped down onto the driveway, and he laughed so hard that he forgot to get out of the car. (He's still sitting out there.) (Mainly because I locked him in.) (That was a joke.) I look like a great big dork, is what I'm saying, and I feel like a great big bruised dork. Apparently I overdid it while under the effects of ibuprofen and morning day-off happiness, and I am now lamenting my prideful attempts to circumvent nature.

M, ever helpful, told me about an obscure Swedish proverb, which he translated as "Pride goeth before a fall." Okay, he didn't actually translate it as "goeth" but it did make me laugh because.. well, that one isn't quite unknown in English either, right? :)

But! I was really productive this morning and I've had a generally fantastic day off. And then Mr. Mailman came and brought the last of my birthday presents--the Himalayans CD that I've been asking for. Obscure Counting Crows related music! M has been putting off buying it for me because he didn't figure that he would like it. And guess what? HE WON'T! I can already tell and I'm only three songs in! But you all know how I feel about most of his music so I figure turn about is fair play.

Also, I used my rice cooker tonight. And guess what? It makes rice! Well. It's really the only thing I can say about it, isn't it?

Oh, here's a question. M and I are going to a wedding Memorial Day weekend. It is "semi-formal", at 7:30 pm, and the groom is a friend of M's from his last job. We went out to dinner with them recently and I think we all had a fun time, but I don't know either of them all that well. There's a dinner reception afterward. What should I wear? The internet, after a brief googling, leads me to believe that I should be wearing something quite dressy.. in which case I could wear the dress I wore in [livejournal.com profile] stewlis's wedding. It's long and satiny, with a little jacket-type thing with small sparkly bits. The thing is.. the wedding is in Kentucky, not New York, and those guidelines are sometimes a little.. well, meant for urban areas. I have never personally been to a wedding where the guests wore something more than church dresses.. which is my other option. I just bought a new church-type dress. It's a little gauzy, and looks nicely springy. What do you think? Anyone? Think the church dress will be okay? I really don't want to wear the other one.. in part because it's at my parents house and I can't try it on to see if it still fits. But I don't want to be underdressed, either, if it actually does turn out to be that fancy. I tried to get M to email the groom to ask and he had no idea what exactly to say, so if you tell me to ask them.. tell me what to say. ;)

[identity profile] carrieb.livejournal.com 2006-05-09 01:59 am (UTC)(link)
Oh man! That sounds very painful. I hope your muscles are feeling better tomorrow.

I think I would make him send an e-mail. Just make it kind of fun like "Hey, we were thrilled to get your wedding invitation. We had a great time at the dinner, espescially when blah blah blah.

Quick question: we don't want to stand out in a crowd, so Kisha wants to know more about the dress code. Women, you know? Is semi-formal "church dress" wear or grown-up prom wear?"

Something like that?

[identity profile] same-sky.livejournal.com 2006-05-09 04:53 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm not. Less sore. I actually don't think I've ever been this sore and it's for such a stupid reason.

That sounds pretty easy and casual and do-able. I'll see if M agrees and hopefully get him to draft said email. I hate not knowing what to wear! At least this time I've narrowed it down to two options instead of needing to go buy something new.

[identity profile] ladysunrunner.livejournal.com 2006-05-09 02:20 am (UTC)(link)
do you know anyone besides the couple who is participating in the wedding? they might be good people to ask since they're probably not so stressed out about it right now and things like this are kinda part of their job :-) on the other hand, i totally wouldn't have minded if someone had asked me or my husband that directly about what to wear to our wedding (of course our wedding was definitely not formal). i'm guessing the internet was probably exaggerating a little about how formal semi-formal really is. aaaaand i'll shut up now since i'm probably not helping at all.

[identity profile] same-sky.livejournal.com 2006-05-09 04:56 pm (UTC)(link)
No, we really don't know anyone else who's going to be there at all, but that's a good idea otherwise. M might know a couple of people he used to work with, but none of them would be in the wedding. I'm hoping that the internet is exaggerating, and I'm kind of guessing that it is, too.. given that all of the weddings I've been to (granted, none of them pretending to be that formal) at least a few of the guys have shown up wearing jeans. I just would really hate to stand out.

[identity profile] courtesy.livejournal.com 2006-05-09 08:30 am (UTC)(link)
Hrm, weddings are so hard. Whenever asking the groom etc I often find the easiest way to suss it out is to work out what the guys would be wearing, as they are harder to define, like, black tie, suit jacket and tie, sports jacket and tie, etc and then match that level of formality.

In terms of picking between the two outfits you have, I'm a visual person and thus need photos ;)

[identity profile] same-sky.livejournal.com 2006-05-09 05:01 pm (UTC)(link)
I have photos from Lisa's wedding but I think I look like crap in most of them. Something went awry in the hair or something and I ended up looking matronly and old instead of carefree and 21. ;) You're better off without the visual. ;)