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Have I kept you in suspense long enough? It wasn't actually on purpose. Our 3:00 appointment was with Dr. Late who was off performing a cesarean. It was after 4:30 before we even got called back there. In the meantime, we saw two entire sets of patients come in and leave, I had to go to the bathroom twice--so it was lucky that I didn't actually need a full bladder after all (I did give up and call this morning because M nagged me about it so much)--and then I started straightening the pictures on the wall because I COULD NOT STAND IT ANYMORE. We didn't get home until 5:30, and then, my mom was still here, and when she left, we had to go find something to eat (which, McDonald's, because we have celebrated all our really big moments by going there, because we are ODD.) So, this is the first chance I've had to post. Not that you're reading this paragraph anyway because you've jumped ahead to the next line already.

It's a girl!


I do have a few pictures, but they're not very good. I have one creepy-baby face shot that I might post, and an adorable tiny footsie, but the money shot is at a very odd angle, so there's not much point in showing it. I'm too tired to scan them, though, so maybe tomorrow. She said that she felt pretty sure, although there is, of course, no guarantee.

The technician did the first part of the ultrasound. She measured everything, giving us a running commentary on what everything was. She said that it wouldn't record (the lady I talked to this morning said that she thought it was broken) but M had the handy dandy camcorder with him, so we have it on film anyway, if in an odd way. She assured us that everything was measuring wonderfully, and that we had a "great-looking baby". Heart fine, brain fine, everything measuring as it should. When she was done, I stayed on the table until Dr. Late came in, and he basically did the same ultrasound again (if a tiny bit quicker.) He pushed down much harder than she did, but his pictures were clearer. I can only imagine that the technician could remember that it doesn't actually feel that good. ;) The baby is currently breech (double-footling breech, and I found this article to be really interesting because you know I googled it.) I'm not worried about that, of course, since it's so early still, but I did laugh because I knew that she was kicking my cervix this week, and sure enough, the doctor said "there's the feet, there's your bladder, there's your cervix, and that's where she'll be kicking you." It amazes me how much of it is stuff that you know when you feel it and yet, HOW do you know? But, you do, it seems. It's really cool.

So, a girl! M has been saying it all along, so he is happy to be proven right. And also because it's a girl! Although we would have been just as happy had it been a boy. A girl, with long legs (apparently) and measuring with a due date of May 25, so he didn't bother changing my previous date of May 26. M and I looked at each other when he said that, but we didn't say anything. (Isn't that one of the best parts of being married, conversing without words?) My due date really is May 25, because some of us have dates that are more exact than estimated date of ovulation. ;)

This is really convenient because both [livejournal.com profile] totte and [livejournal.com profile] big_bubba balked at betrothing boy children, but [livejournal.com profile] carrieb and I have big plans for Erik and Ducky. :)

Date: 2007-01-18 01:51 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dbrus.livejournal.com
Congrats! I am sure she was super cute!

Date: 2007-01-18 02:45 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] same-sky.livejournal.com
Very cute! Thanks. :)

Date: 2007-01-18 02:27 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] big-bubba.livejournal.com
So... I believe it's customary that the bride's family pays for the wedding? You might want to start saving money right away.

Anyway... GRATTIS! En liten tösabit!

Date: 2007-01-18 02:45 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] same-sky.livejournal.com
*laugh* Of COURSE you would think of that first thing. I hear that times are changing... ;)

Thanks. :)

Date: 2007-01-18 02:48 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] carrieb.livejournal.com
It's a girl!!!!! Yay yay yay yay!!!!! Ok, so I would have been yaying even if it was a boy, but I am just so excited to KNOW. I have been thinking about it all the live long day.

Yay!

Date: 2007-01-18 02:46 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] same-sky.livejournal.com
Yeah! Yay! I would have been so disappointed if she hadn't been in an accomodating position. :)

Date: 2007-01-18 03:55 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sunflower-pixie.livejournal.com
ow wow! congratulations!

Date: 2007-01-18 03:04 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] same-sky.livejournal.com
Thank you!

Date: 2007-01-18 03:59 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] queen-b980.livejournal.com
Congratulations!!! Girls are so much fun. I think?? Of course I do have 3 nieces soon to be 4. You know May birthdays are exceptionally special too (Dirk was a May baby). So, I guess the name Ducky will stick for a while until we know her official name???? Best of luck with the rest of your pregnancy...

Date: 2007-01-18 03:07 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] same-sky.livejournal.com
Thank you! May is a good month for a birthday! We'll keep the name Ducky til she's born, most likely. At the moment, I can't even imagine what we'll end up naming her, though M would have her named already if I'd let him. ;)

Date: 2007-01-18 07:13 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] blue-eyed-girl.livejournal.com
Awww ... a little girl baby. One of my two favorite kinds! ;)

Seriously, I was on pins and needles all day! Starting from about 8 or 9pm my time, I kept counting back to your time and figuring that you might be back. I checked more often than I'd like to admit for this post, until I finally had to go to bed around midnight, then I came to the computer as soon as I got up this morning!

Congratulations!

Date: 2007-01-18 03:08 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] same-sky.livejournal.com
I'm sorry I took so long! I hate waiting, too, when I know someone is going to post something exciting. :)

Thanks!

Date: 2007-01-18 07:45 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ellyll.livejournal.com
Congrats! :)

Date: 2007-01-18 03:08 pm (UTC)

Date: 2007-01-18 09:46 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gissa.livejournal.com
Yay for girl power and a big CONGRATS!

Date: 2007-01-18 03:08 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] same-sky.livejournal.com
Thank you! Girls are lovely. :)

Date: 2007-01-18 10:52 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lizardek.livejournal.com
:) :) :)

Date: 2007-01-18 03:08 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] same-sky.livejournal.com
Yes, exactly! :)

Sugar and spice and everything nice

Date: 2007-01-18 11:17 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ozswede.livejournal.com
Ahh.... excuse me while I break into song Thank heaven for little girls...

Congratulations!!!!!

And I'd like to mention again about [livejournal.com profile] reebert's irl name being quite a fabulous name for a little girl. All of the very best people on your friend's list have that name.

Re: Sugar and spice and everything nice

Date: 2007-01-18 03:11 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] same-sky.livejournal.com
Thanks! M's mom suggested Maria and Anne Marie this morning. M laughed when he told me that and said, "wouldn't ozswede love it if we actually did name the baby that?" So, we talked about you during breakfast this morning.

I was actually thinking "Lambi" would be a good name...

Re: Sugar and spice and everything nice

Date: 2007-01-18 03:21 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ozswede.livejournal.com
Maria is actually the most popular girl's name in Sweden would you believe? Well,according to SCB. Marie (which is a far nicer name) comes in at number 11. Though things are changing somewhat. In 2005, the most popular name for a girl born in Sweden was Emma.

Lambi is thrilled that her name may be considered. I'd like to see M's mother's face if she thought her granddaughter was going to be called Lambi.

Re: Sugar and spice and everything nice

Date: 2007-01-18 03:57 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] same-sky.livejournal.com
My mother would have a fit, and she doesn't have a toilet paper association, so yeah, M's mom would probably be even less happy. It would be pretty funny, though, so I might have to keep that in mind.

Thanks for the link. I like the theory of giving the kid a very Swedish name, but in practice.. not so much. There are a few that sound nice, but many of them just do not translate well to my English-speaking ears.

Re: Sugar and spice and everything nice

Date: 2007-01-18 04:15 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ozswede.livejournal.com
I agree that you need a name that translates well into both cultures. I had a friend who called her son Kane. Except that her husband was of Italian descent and his family were horrified because the letter "k" is not found in the Italian alphabet, but also because they could never say his name properly and kept calling him by the Italian "Cane" (a bit like Caa-nay), which means dog!

Yes, some of those Swedish names are a bit odd, aren't they? Imagine calling her Fanny, which is popular here, but something to snigger over in the States and to roar with laughter over in Australia, where it refers to quite another part of the body...

The boys' names are even worse. Could your mum even say Kjell?

My kids had to be named after their paternal grandparents (the pressure was enormous), which is how they came to have such unusual names. My son always loved his name and was proud to be named after his grandfather as well as the patron saint of Italy (Francesco). My daughter used to dislike her name (Filomena) and went by Nina for years, but now she has gone back to it, liking the fact that it is a little different.

Have fun finding something you both like.

Date: 2007-01-18 02:21 pm (UTC)
From: [personal profile] marketeer
Congratulations! You're going to be drowning in pink soon.

Date: 2007-01-18 03:12 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] same-sky.livejournal.com
Thanks! I have always liked pink... ;)

Date: 2007-01-18 04:02 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ms-jacket.livejournal.com
I'm not just saying this because I'm totally craving another baby right now, but I'm very excited for you. As annoying as the whole pregnancy thing can be, it's an amazing time in your life that isn't long when you look at your life yet you'll think back on this time a lot. Hope you enjoy the rest of your pregnancy and we're excited with you about this little girl of yours. :-)

Question: So the not-telling-the family-the-name doesn't hold true for LJ right? :-P

Date: 2007-01-18 06:36 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] same-sky.livejournal.com
Not *just* because? I thought you were done with babies! Maybe I made that up. :) I am certainly enjoying pregnancy so far, all complaints aside. I hope I continue to! :)

Answer: Unfortunately, it does. We may cave in after we know a name, but we're sticking to it for now. Strangely, I seem to be holding fast more than M, and he was the one all gung ho about it to begin with.

Date: 2007-01-19 04:23 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ms-jacket.livejournal.com
No I am very done having babies therefore I'm living through all of you preggo ladies.

The name thing is funny, whatever you pick will be fine. I don't think I've ever heard a name someone has been considering and thought, "Oh God no!!!" I guess I grew up around enough hippies that I'm pretty unphased by funky name choices. An interesting trend I've noticed are my friends that are going for simple names only because hardly anyone picks them anymore: Jane, Maggie, Mary. No matter the preconceived notions you have about a person with the name X, once it's your baby, that will be the one and only association.

Date: 2007-01-18 08:46 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] courtesy.livejournal.com
Weeeeeee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Oh, I have goose bumps all over!!!! This is so exciting!!!!! I love her already!!!!!!!!!!

Date: 2007-01-18 08:59 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] same-sky.livejournal.com
Awww! We do too! What a coincidence! Yay!!!!

Date: 2007-01-18 08:48 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] courtesy.livejournal.com
I have to post again because I'm so excited!!!!!!!! I'm so glad it went well and I just can't wait until May 25 now!

Date: 2007-01-18 09:00 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] same-sky.livejournal.com
I've never had a gratuitous double-comment of excitement before! That's so cute. :)

Date: 2007-01-21 02:38 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] e11en.livejournal.com
Here I finally am to say, hooray!! I had a feeling Ducky would be a girl. How reassuring, too, that everything seems right on target. Congratulations!

Date: 2007-01-23 12:12 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] same-sky.livejournal.com
Thanks! Girls are neat. :)

Date: 2007-01-22 12:23 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stewlis.livejournal.com
Wow, a girl!! Somehow, that made it real...is that strange, or ... nah, I'm sure you understand that. It's like, before, I knew you were pregnant, but now... it's *real* it's not an IT any more, it's a GIRL! yay! I can just see you with a cute little girl, curly/wavy hair or at least hair that curls well, and I don't know why I am putting this much effort into the hair thing but still. Is it driving you nuts that you can't see her? LOL I always thought it would drive me crazy wanting to see the baby, see what it looked like, ya know? Yeah, it's late, and I'm making less sense as I go.

Date: 2007-01-23 12:13 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] same-sky.livejournal.com
Yeah, I want to see what she looks like. The anticipation! I know what you mean about it feeling more real, though. It's like that for us too a little bit. As long as you're thinking about her hair, picture it in blonde since M and I were both very blonde children, though we grew up to be brown-harired. Blonde-haired and blue-eyed is my guess. Other than that.. geez, it's so hard to wait and see!

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